How to Fall Back in Love with Your Home
February isn’t just about Valentine’s Day—it’s also the perfect time to show your home some love. When life gets busy, it’s easy for our spaces to feel more like a source of stress than a sanctuary. Clutter builds up, things lose their place, and suddenly, your home isn’t the calm, inviting space it once was.
But just like any good relationship, a little effort and attention can help you rekindle that spark. Here’s how to fall back in love with your home and make it a space that truly works for you.
1. Start with a Mindset Shift
It’s easy to focus on what we don’t like about our homes—wishing for more storage, a bigger kitchen, or different decor. But rather than dwelling on what’s missing, take a step back and appreciate what you have. What do you love about your home? The cosy reading nook? The way the light pours in on a sunny morning? Shifting your mindset helps you see your space in a new light and makes you more motivated to care for it.
2. Clear Out the Clutter That’s Weighing You Down
Clutter is one of the biggest culprits when it comes to feeling disconnected from your home. It creates visual noise, adds stress, and can even make your space feel smaller than it is. Start small—one drawer, one surface, or one category at a time. As you clear things out, you’ll not only create more space but also make your home feel instantly lighter and more enjoyable to be in.
3. Refresh Key Spaces with Simple Changes
You don’t need a full renovation to breathe new life into your home. Small updates can make a huge difference:
Rearrange furniture to improve flow and functionality.
Swap out soft furnishings like cushions, throws, or rugs for a new look.
Add fresh flowers or houseplants for a burst of life and colour.
Reorganise open shelves to create a visually pleasing, clutter-free display.
4. Deep Clean the Areas You’ve Been Avoiding
We all have those spots—under the sofa, behind the fridge, the top of wardrobes. A deep clean can be surprisingly satisfying and make your home feel fresher. Set a timer for 30 minutes and tackle one area at a time. The sense of accomplishment will make you feel more connected to your space.
5. Create a Space That Works for Your Lifestyle
One of the best ways to love your home is to make sure it supports your daily life. Think about the little frustrations that build up—does your entryway always become a dumping ground? Do you struggle to find things in the kitchen? Simple organisational tweaks, like adding storage baskets, hooks, or drawer dividers, can make everyday routines smoother and your home more enjoyable to live in.
6. Set the Mood with Lighting and Scents
Never underestimate the power of ambience. Soft lighting, candles, and diffusers can transform how a space feels. Try:
Warm-toned bulbs instead of harsh white light.
Scented candles or essential oils for a cosy atmosphere.
Fairy lights in unexpected places for a touch of magic.
7. Make Your Bedroom a Sanctuary
If there’s one space you should focus on, it’s your bedroom. It’s where you start and end each day, and it should be a place of rest and relaxation. Clear away clutter from nightstands, invest in quality bedding, and remove anything that doesn’t contribute to a peaceful environment.
8. Let Go of ‘Someday’ Items
We all have them—things we keep just in case or for a future version of ourselves. Whether it’s clothes that no longer fit, books you’re never going to read, or kitchen gadgets gathering dust, letting go of these items frees up space (both physically and mentally) and allows you to truly enjoy what you have.
9. Create a Daily Reset Routine
Falling in love with your home isn’t just about one big declutter—it’s about maintaining it. A simple daily reset, like spending 10 minutes tidying surfaces, fluffing cushions, and putting things back where they belong, helps keep your space feeling calm and welcoming.
10. Celebrate Your Space
Finally, take time to appreciate and enjoy your home. Host a cosy dinner, spend a quiet evening with a book, or simply sit with a cup of tea and take in your surroundings. When you put effort into your space, it becomes somewhere you truly want to be.
Falling back in love with your home isn’t about making it perfect—it’s about making it work for you and creating a space that brings joy, ease, and comfort into your life. If you need help getting started, I’d love to chat and help you find simple ways to refresh and reorganise your space.
Chrissie x